Two useful questions to ask habitually are
“What can I learn from this?”
“How can I use this?”
To use Nassim Taleb’s neologism, these are ‘antifragile’ heuristics.
Christianity lends itself naturally to these questions, because it views the universe as essentially purposive. God has a plan for the universe -> that plan can (if we so choose) involve us -> therefore, events that occur (can) fit into this plan.
Therefore, it’s a natural question for a Christian to ask
“What purpose can God have for this?”
which leads fairly naturally to the two above questions.
If you think of God as a creative, on-going God, then you also can think of God as consistently asking himself the two above questions, and then coordinating people and things (to the extent they are willing – see process theology) in creative solutions.